A Woman was out golfing one day when she hit the ball into the woods. She went into the woods to look for it and found a frog in a trap. The frog said to her, “If you release me from this trap, I will grant you three wishes.”
The woman freed the frog, and the frog said, “Thank you, but I failed to mention that there was a condition to your wishes. Whatever you wish for, your husband will get times ten!”
The woman said, “That’s okay.” For her first wish, she wanted to be the most beautiful woman in the world. The frog warned her, “You do realize that this wish will also make your husband the most handsome man in the world, an Adonis to whom women will flock.” The woman replied, “That’s okay, because I will be the most beautiful Woman and he will have eyes only for me.”
So, KAZAM! she’s the most beautiful Woman in the world!
For her second wish, she wanted to be the richest woman in the world. The frog said, “That will make your husband the richest man in the world. And he will be ten times richer than you.” The woman said, “That’s okay, because what’s mine is his and what’s his is mine.”
So, KAZAM! she’s the richest woman in the world!
The frog then inquired about her third wish, and she answered, “I’d like a mild heart attack.”
Moral of the story: Women are clever. Don’t mess with them.
Attention female readers : This is the end of the joke for you. Stop here and continue feeling good.
Male readers, continue reading….
The man had a heart attack ten times milder than his wife.
Moral of the story: Women think they’re so smart. Let them continue to think that way and just enjoy the show.
PS: If you are a woman and are still reading this; it only goes to show that women never listen!
Note: I got this article from www.InspiredDreamer.com. My reaction when the woman wished for a mild heart attack: that was clever, you girl!! Heck, it did not occur to me what would happen to the husband. Now this article got me thinking. Do we really "just believe" that we are smarter than the men? Hmmm...
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Sunday, June 27, 2010
Saturday, June 26, 2010
Chinese....again!!
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Good friday afternoon!!
Honey's day off today and that means malling, malling, malling!! Hubby never gets tired of bringing us to the mall during his rest day. We frequent three to four malls in the metro and we visit them alternately. Stepping inside a totally different mood away from the office chaos and tiring household chores is always something to look forward to even if it happens on a regular basis. Going to the mall is one of our cheap thrills that we will never give up until we get our first strand of gray hair.
Aside from checking out what's new, we are always excited on where to eat. Us being clueless on what's for lunch makes the restaurant hunt more exciting. Well, it's really not a hunt afterall, for we have already tried almost every resto in the malls. But the can't-decide-on-where-to-eat factor boosts the anticipation and the hunger even more.
Today our feet led us to Flavors of China. We are not new diners here, in fact we also visit their other branches. What makes us make a U-turn everytime we pass there is their big serving. One rice topping meal is good for sharing, that is if after you discovered how delish is the meal, you still want to share it.
This was served while we were waiting for our meal to arrive. It was not that hot, though it's uber crunchiness told me that it was freshly out from a steaming pan. Better request for a vinegar, for this cracker will never be complete without the tangy taste of that dip.
Braised beef brisket, as usual, for hubby. Soft and tasty beef chunks and almost overflowing brisket sauce with tender carrots and a hint of star anise on top of generous serving of rice, wow, that really is for my honey.
I ordered fish fillet rice topping in tausi sauce. I ordered this meal because I had to share it with the little man. And since I know already how delicious and healthy this meal is, I was quite sure the little man will enjoy it. And I was right. The soft fish meat paired with tausi sauce made the mommy and the baby happy.
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Good friday afternoon!!
Honey's day off today and that means malling, malling, malling!! Hubby never gets tired of bringing us to the mall during his rest day. We frequent three to four malls in the metro and we visit them alternately. Stepping inside a totally different mood away from the office chaos and tiring household chores is always something to look forward to even if it happens on a regular basis. Going to the mall is one of our cheap thrills that we will never give up until we get our first strand of gray hair.
Aside from checking out what's new, we are always excited on where to eat. Us being clueless on what's for lunch makes the restaurant hunt more exciting. Well, it's really not a hunt afterall, for we have already tried almost every resto in the malls. But the can't-decide-on-where-to-eat factor boosts the anticipation and the hunger even more.
Today our feet led us to Flavors of China. We are not new diners here, in fact we also visit their other branches. What makes us make a U-turn everytime we pass there is their big serving. One rice topping meal is good for sharing, that is if after you discovered how delish is the meal, you still want to share it.
This was served while we were waiting for our meal to arrive. It was not that hot, though it's uber crunchiness told me that it was freshly out from a steaming pan. Better request for a vinegar, for this cracker will never be complete without the tangy taste of that dip.
Braised beef brisket, as usual, for hubby. Soft and tasty beef chunks and almost overflowing brisket sauce with tender carrots and a hint of star anise on top of generous serving of rice, wow, that really is for my honey.
I ordered fish fillet rice topping in tausi sauce. I ordered this meal because I had to share it with the little man. And since I know already how delicious and healthy this meal is, I was quite sure the little man will enjoy it. And I was right. The soft fish meat paired with tausi sauce made the mommy and the baby happy.
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Monday, June 21, 2010
Little Man's First Haircut
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My little man's another first.
HIS FIRST HAIRCUT!!
The truth is, we were supposed to have the haircut the week prior that. However when we went to the kiddie grooming place, it was full and we were 8th on the list. We had to hear mass later that afternoon and shall we wait for our turn, we won't be able to make it. So we just went home with his hair still intact.
June 12, 2010--since that was a Saturday-holiday, honey did not go to work. We pushed thru with the plan. We went to the mall a bit early knowing how the grooming place gets full really fast on a weekend. And so we were third on the list. That was good enough. Since we still had to wait, we prepped our little man with toys, playthings, and a bunch of colorful stuff.
While waiting, hubby let him try the bikes placed outside this huge toy station just near the grooming place. He enjoyed the ride so much!
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Cuts for Tots. The grooming place speaks for itself.
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The scene inside the grooming place. I love how the place looks like. It is indeed dedicated for tiny men and women for it is embellished with colorful stuff and attractive displays. Characters of all sorts are placed everywhere--Mickey Mouse, Spongebob, Dora and Hello Kitty among others. The chairs, oh how I adore the chairs!! They have kiddie carts and kiddie cars with a monitor infront so the attention of the kid will be glued on the screen. And I love how the tiny laughs and tiny screams of the kids inside blend so well together. And parents never fail to click on their cams, just like what I did the whole time.
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And after around fifteen minutes, tahda!!! Little man's hair now all gone!!
THE FIRST HAIRCUT'S EXPERIENCES AND BIT TIPS
-Let the little one wear a comfy top or shirt. Migo wore a simple, almost pambahay shirt for I know that at the end of the session, he's going to change anyways. He has to change for his first shirt might be full of hair and he might get itchy because of it.
-Bring an extra top or shirt. Just like what I already mentioned, he has to change to a new shirt after the session.
-Come early. The place gets unbelievably full in a short period of time specially on weekends. It's always better to be early.
-Bring the favorite toy. Though the grooming place has tons of toys for the little creature, it will be best to bring a special toy familiar to him. Shall he cry due to the unusual experience, just let the toy out so to divert his attention away from the sound of the scissors or razor.
-Help the stylist. Shall your kiddo throw tantrums, or gets hyper and excited, or turns a bit malikot during the ordeal, be responsible for making him "behaved". It's only you, the parent, who can do this and no one else.
-Bring your own shampoo and towel. Part of the pay is the shampoo session. Though they offer a mild-for-kids shampoo, and for sure their towels are often replaced with a new one, it's still best to bring your own for hygienic reasons.
-Get the discount or membership card. If you believe that your child will be having a regular schedule to this grooming place, it's practical to avail of their membership card that entitles the holder of discounts to his succeeding visits.
-Bring your camera. And please do not forget to charge the batteries, or bring extra batteries. This is your child's first haircut and you would not want it to end just like that. There has to be a memorabilia of everything that happened, and he has pictures to cherish when he gets old.
-Lasty, but most importantly, bring home his few strands of hair. If you are a mom like me who's into preserving all sorts of souvenirs of my baby, i bet you are not to miss this one. When my little man grows into someone who's already responsible to his grooming, when he won't need my hand anymore to assure him that haircuts are fine, when he's in the age where he has his own little version to take care of, these strands of hair will always bring back the memories of the young him.
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My little man's another first.
HIS FIRST HAIRCUT!!
The truth is, we were supposed to have the haircut the week prior that. However when we went to the kiddie grooming place, it was full and we were 8th on the list. We had to hear mass later that afternoon and shall we wait for our turn, we won't be able to make it. So we just went home with his hair still intact.
June 12, 2010--since that was a Saturday-holiday, honey did not go to work. We pushed thru with the plan. We went to the mall a bit early knowing how the grooming place gets full really fast on a weekend. And so we were third on the list. That was good enough. Since we still had to wait, we prepped our little man with toys, playthings, and a bunch of colorful stuff.
While waiting, hubby let him try the bikes placed outside this huge toy station just near the grooming place. He enjoyed the ride so much!
.
Cuts for Tots. The grooming place speaks for itself.
.
The scene inside the grooming place. I love how the place looks like. It is indeed dedicated for tiny men and women for it is embellished with colorful stuff and attractive displays. Characters of all sorts are placed everywhere--Mickey Mouse, Spongebob, Dora and Hello Kitty among others. The chairs, oh how I adore the chairs!! They have kiddie carts and kiddie cars with a monitor infront so the attention of the kid will be glued on the screen. And I love how the tiny laughs and tiny screams of the kids inside blend so well together. And parents never fail to click on their cams, just like what I did the whole time.
.
And after around fifteen minutes, tahda!!! Little man's hair now all gone!!
THE FIRST HAIRCUT'S EXPERIENCES AND BIT TIPS
-Let the little one wear a comfy top or shirt. Migo wore a simple, almost pambahay shirt for I know that at the end of the session, he's going to change anyways. He has to change for his first shirt might be full of hair and he might get itchy because of it.
-Bring an extra top or shirt. Just like what I already mentioned, he has to change to a new shirt after the session.
-Come early. The place gets unbelievably full in a short period of time specially on weekends. It's always better to be early.
-Bring the favorite toy. Though the grooming place has tons of toys for the little creature, it will be best to bring a special toy familiar to him. Shall he cry due to the unusual experience, just let the toy out so to divert his attention away from the sound of the scissors or razor.
-Help the stylist. Shall your kiddo throw tantrums, or gets hyper and excited, or turns a bit malikot during the ordeal, be responsible for making him "behaved". It's only you, the parent, who can do this and no one else.
-Bring your own shampoo and towel. Part of the pay is the shampoo session. Though they offer a mild-for-kids shampoo, and for sure their towels are often replaced with a new one, it's still best to bring your own for hygienic reasons.
-Get the discount or membership card. If you believe that your child will be having a regular schedule to this grooming place, it's practical to avail of their membership card that entitles the holder of discounts to his succeeding visits.
-Bring your camera. And please do not forget to charge the batteries, or bring extra batteries. This is your child's first haircut and you would not want it to end just like that. There has to be a memorabilia of everything that happened, and he has pictures to cherish when he gets old.
-Lasty, but most importantly, bring home his few strands of hair. If you are a mom like me who's into preserving all sorts of souvenirs of my baby, i bet you are not to miss this one. When my little man grows into someone who's already responsible to his grooming, when he won't need my hand anymore to assure him that haircuts are fine, when he's in the age where he has his own little version to take care of, these strands of hair will always bring back the memories of the young him.
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Sunday, June 20, 2010
Father's Day at Little Asia
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GlamMom's status on Facebook today: Not all men who have children are worthy to be called a father. To all the men (and yes, women) who know how to be one, doing their best to be one, fighting over life to be one, happy father's day!!
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!
Today we did not have anything extraordinary. I greeted honey a happy father's day at 1AM when we were about to go to sleep. We heard mass at eleven in the morning and headed to Little Asia in T.Morato after. That simple.
Shall I still stress out that we are fans of Little Asia? Over the years, their dishes, or should I say our favorite dishes, never fail to impress us again and again. And today, just like before, we ordered our never-fails-faves.
YANG CHOW FRIED RICE
This rice is a complete meal in itself. Packed with asado pork, shrimp, green peas, carrots and eggs, this rice can satisfy hungry stomachs of two to three persons. But with my ever growing appetite that's now taking a toll on my waistline, I believe I can finish one, with or without viand.
COMBINATION CHOW MIEN
Pancit canton in layman's term. Only way, way better. This dish was for our little man since he adores noodles, but it was so tempting that honey and I had to also dig in. Bits and pieces of pork, beef, chicken, shrimp, squid and veggies complete this meal. And yes, the little man enjoyed this dish and was very happy with it.
SALT AND PEPPER SPARERIBS
Spareribs tossed in salt, pepper and a whole lot of spices, deep fried to perfection coming up with one delightful dish. It never fails to silent our grumbling tummy. One thing I do not like though is it's being oily. I needed some tea to atleast not feel guilty with all that oil I put in my system.
KOREAN BEEF STEW
The first time we ordered this, we were not that impressed, but we gave it another shot this time. And yes, we were wrong. The beef was so tender, that it felt like it's melting it's way to my tongue. And the korean beef broth---perfect!! The broth was so tasty and yummy that there was a point I was not minding the beef at all. I can live even with just the broth, I swear!
He was happy, obviously!!
As if he can read!!
Happy father's day, dada!!
Of course this will not be complete without the family pic ;)
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GlamMom's status on Facebook today: Not all men who have children are worthy to be called a father. To all the men (and yes, women) who know how to be one, doing their best to be one, fighting over life to be one, happy father's day!!
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!
Today we did not have anything extraordinary. I greeted honey a happy father's day at 1AM when we were about to go to sleep. We heard mass at eleven in the morning and headed to Little Asia in T.Morato after. That simple.
Shall I still stress out that we are fans of Little Asia? Over the years, their dishes, or should I say our favorite dishes, never fail to impress us again and again. And today, just like before, we ordered our never-fails-faves.
YANG CHOW FRIED RICE
This rice is a complete meal in itself. Packed with asado pork, shrimp, green peas, carrots and eggs, this rice can satisfy hungry stomachs of two to three persons. But with my ever growing appetite that's now taking a toll on my waistline, I believe I can finish one, with or without viand.
COMBINATION CHOW MIEN
Pancit canton in layman's term. Only way, way better. This dish was for our little man since he adores noodles, but it was so tempting that honey and I had to also dig in. Bits and pieces of pork, beef, chicken, shrimp, squid and veggies complete this meal. And yes, the little man enjoyed this dish and was very happy with it.
SALT AND PEPPER SPARERIBS
Spareribs tossed in salt, pepper and a whole lot of spices, deep fried to perfection coming up with one delightful dish. It never fails to silent our grumbling tummy. One thing I do not like though is it's being oily. I needed some tea to atleast not feel guilty with all that oil I put in my system.
KOREAN BEEF STEW
The first time we ordered this, we were not that impressed, but we gave it another shot this time. And yes, we were wrong. The beef was so tender, that it felt like it's melting it's way to my tongue. And the korean beef broth---perfect!! The broth was so tasty and yummy that there was a point I was not minding the beef at all. I can live even with just the broth, I swear!
He was happy, obviously!!
As if he can read!!
Happy father's day, dada!!
Of course this will not be complete without the family pic ;)
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Wednesday, June 16, 2010
A Father's Strength...
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Note: I got this from Facebook courtesy of my cousin. This is a very touching note about fathers.
LAKAS NG ISANG AMA
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa lapad ng kaniyang mga balikat.
Ito’y nadarama sa higpit ng kaniyang mga yakap.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa lagong at lakas ng kaniyang boses.
Kundi sa marahan niyang tinig.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa dami ng kaniyang mga kabarkada.
Ito’y sa kung paano siya makisama sa kaniyang mga anak.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa kung paano siya tinitingala ng
kaniyang mga ka-opisina. Ito’y sa kung paano siya iginagalang sa tahanan.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa kung gaano siya katindi sumuntok.
Ito’y sa mapagmahal niyang haplos.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa lago ng buhok sa kaniyang dibdib.
Ito’y sa laki ng pusong tinitibok ay pag-ibig.
Ang lakas ng isang ama’y hindi sa bigat ng kaniyang binubuhat.
Ito’y sa mga kabigatang kaya niyang bathin.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa dami ng babaeng kaniyang pina-ibig.
Ito’y kung gaano siya katapat magmahal sa kaniyang natatanging kabiyak.
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Note: I got this from Facebook courtesy of my cousin. This is a very touching note about fathers.
LAKAS NG ISANG AMA
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa lapad ng kaniyang mga balikat.
Ito’y nadarama sa higpit ng kaniyang mga yakap.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa lagong at lakas ng kaniyang boses.
Kundi sa marahan niyang tinig.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa dami ng kaniyang mga kabarkada.
Ito’y sa kung paano siya makisama sa kaniyang mga anak.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa kung paano siya tinitingala ng
kaniyang mga ka-opisina. Ito’y sa kung paano siya iginagalang sa tahanan.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa kung gaano siya katindi sumuntok.
Ito’y sa mapagmahal niyang haplos.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa lago ng buhok sa kaniyang dibdib.
Ito’y sa laki ng pusong tinitibok ay pag-ibig.
Ang lakas ng isang ama’y hindi sa bigat ng kaniyang binubuhat.
Ito’y sa mga kabigatang kaya niyang bathin.
Ang lakas ng isang ama ay hindi sa dami ng babaeng kaniyang pina-ibig.
Ito’y kung gaano siya katapat magmahal sa kaniyang natatanging kabiyak.
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Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Things Nobody Told You About Parenthood
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Note: From now on, I will also be posting articles I found helpful for me as a mom, and for others out there who might be interested with my read. These articles, obviously and I am stressing this out, are not from my own thoughts. There, I am sure I made it clear :)
Let me start with this first article and here it goes...
You may have set the agenda once, but not anymore. Your baby's schedule is now your schedule. Sure, newborns sleep up to 18 hours a day. But that's broken up into small chunks. And between naps, there's feeding, changing, and a whole lot of holding going on.
Tip: After the first hectic weeks, babies take longer naps at predictable times. And you'll become a much better time manager.
You've Joined a Worldwide Club
Suddenly you've got a lot of friends. Strangers smile at you. Mothers at church ask you if you want to join them on a play date. Your boss asks you how your baby's doctor visit went. The club is called parenthood, and you have a lot of company. Enjoy it.
Tip: You'll develop a unique parenting style that is right for your family -- and may be quite different from your neighbors.
Your Relationship Changes
The dynamics have changed. There's one more person to interact with, and that means less time for just you and your partner. If one parent is providing most of the baby care, the other can feel slighted. And couples can get so busy they forget to talk.
Tip: Set aside time for just the two of you. Make a date and share what's happening in each other's life.
Night's No Longer for Sleeping
You remember when night was for sleeping, don't you? Well, your new baby isn't going to let you do that for a while. Until she sleeps through the night, you can limit your sleep deprivation by taking turns with your partner in getting up with the baby.
Tip: During the day, don't try to catch up on chores while the baby sleeps. Lie down and rest.
You'll Have Too Many Visitors
You know that family and friends will want to see the new baby. When they do, they'll bring endless stories about raising their kids and endless advice about raising yours. If you feel up for it, it could be fun.
Tip: If you're feeling overwhelmed with all you have to do, it's OK to say "Let's make it another time." Good friends will understand.
You Make More Faces Than a Baby
Babies learn by watching and interacting with their environment. It won't be long before you find yourself doing a lot of "silly" things to encourage your baby's learning. Smiling, sticking out your tongue, or making a funny face or sound will attract his attention.
Tip: After the first few weeks, you'll see him studying, learning, and eventually imitating your silly faces.
You Need Help
The constant attention that babies demand is exhausting. Ask for help from your partner. Each of you should have time each day while the other is taking care of the baby to do something that's just for you. Watch a favorite TV show, read a book, go for a walk, take a bath.
Tip: If you're a single parent, don't be afraid to ask for help from a friend or relative. Time away will let you recharge.
Babies Need Conversation
When you talk with your baby, two things happen. She learns and you bond. And the more you talk, the more those things happen.
Tip: Imitate your baby's vocalizations -- "ba-ba" or "goo-goo" -- then wait for your baby to make another sound, and repeat that back. This helps her learn the give and take of conversation.
Babies Are Expensive
The average middle class family spends $225,000 in the first 17 years of a child's life. That's just to provide food, shelter, and other necessities. It doesn't include things like increases in health insurance. Nor does it include saving for college, which is best started early. Babies necessitate a lot of financial planning.
Guilt Is Part of Parenthood
You told yourself you were going to be a top-notch parent – a calming, happy presence. But there are times when you simply don't want to do it anymore. Now you feel guilty that you aren't enjoying every second of parenthood. Don't. It's natural to want a break from baby.
Tip: Ask for help. When the baby's safe in his crib, call a friend. And notice all the things that are going right.
Children's Books Are Literature
If you didn't know children's books before, you'll fall in love with them now. Many are written with both parent and child in mind to entertain while they educate. Babies love to be read to, and it's never too early to start reading to yours.
Tip: Reading aloud will help your baby be a better reader when she's older.
You'll Make Mistakes
All those how-to books you read about parenting, and all those things you swore you would never do ... Maybe in a perfect world there are perfect parents. In the real world, the rule of thumb is you do what works. If your child's too old for a pacifier but it helps him sleep, you'll probably make the "mistake" of letting him keep it. Relax. That's not the kind of mistake that's going to hurt him. When in doubt, ask your pediatrician.
You Become a Judge
As your child grows, so does your role as adjudicator. It may not be what you want to do. Nevertheless, there'll be disputes between siblings to settle, boundaries to establish, time-outs to monitor. Discipline isn't the easiest thing to administer. But it's part of the job.
Tip: Set aside time to spend with each child individually, so they don't feel like they're always competing for your attention.
You Gain a Bathroom Buddy
It'll be a couple of years before you start potty training your new baby. But when you do, either you or your spouse will likely have an audience when you go to the bathroom. It's called parent modeling. And it’s one way to teach what going to the bathroom is all about. A kid, especially a smart kid like yours, can learn a lot by watching.
Baby Love Is Real
It might not happen right away. But someday you'll look at your child and feel a depth of emotion you haven't known before. Just how boundless that feeling of love is catches a lot of parents, especially mothers, by surprise. You knew you were going to love this baby, but not so unconditionally. Enjoy it and make it last a lifetime.
Parenting Is Letting Go
It's the bittersweet in parenting. Every milestone is an accomplishment, and you can be proud you helped your child get there. But at the same time, every milestone means your child is more independent and needs you a little less. When she's tiny, won't sleep through the night, and can't do for herself, you feel like it will never end. Then it seems like it's the next day and she's waving goodbye.
Article from:
http://www.webmd.com/parenting
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Note: From now on, I will also be posting articles I found helpful for me as a mom, and for others out there who might be interested with my read. These articles, obviously and I am stressing this out, are not from my own thoughts. There, I am sure I made it clear :)
Let me start with this first article and here it goes...
You may have set the agenda once, but not anymore. Your baby's schedule is now your schedule. Sure, newborns sleep up to 18 hours a day. But that's broken up into small chunks. And between naps, there's feeding, changing, and a whole lot of holding going on.
Tip: After the first hectic weeks, babies take longer naps at predictable times. And you'll become a much better time manager.
You've Joined a Worldwide Club
Suddenly you've got a lot of friends. Strangers smile at you. Mothers at church ask you if you want to join them on a play date. Your boss asks you how your baby's doctor visit went. The club is called parenthood, and you have a lot of company. Enjoy it.
Tip: You'll develop a unique parenting style that is right for your family -- and may be quite different from your neighbors.
Your Relationship Changes
The dynamics have changed. There's one more person to interact with, and that means less time for just you and your partner. If one parent is providing most of the baby care, the other can feel slighted. And couples can get so busy they forget to talk.
Tip: Set aside time for just the two of you. Make a date and share what's happening in each other's life.
Night's No Longer for Sleeping
You remember when night was for sleeping, don't you? Well, your new baby isn't going to let you do that for a while. Until she sleeps through the night, you can limit your sleep deprivation by taking turns with your partner in getting up with the baby.
Tip: During the day, don't try to catch up on chores while the baby sleeps. Lie down and rest.
You'll Have Too Many Visitors
You know that family and friends will want to see the new baby. When they do, they'll bring endless stories about raising their kids and endless advice about raising yours. If you feel up for it, it could be fun.
Tip: If you're feeling overwhelmed with all you have to do, it's OK to say "Let's make it another time." Good friends will understand.
You Make More Faces Than a Baby
Babies learn by watching and interacting with their environment. It won't be long before you find yourself doing a lot of "silly" things to encourage your baby's learning. Smiling, sticking out your tongue, or making a funny face or sound will attract his attention.
Tip: After the first few weeks, you'll see him studying, learning, and eventually imitating your silly faces.
You Need Help
The constant attention that babies demand is exhausting. Ask for help from your partner. Each of you should have time each day while the other is taking care of the baby to do something that's just for you. Watch a favorite TV show, read a book, go for a walk, take a bath.
Tip: If you're a single parent, don't be afraid to ask for help from a friend or relative. Time away will let you recharge.
Babies Need Conversation
When you talk with your baby, two things happen. She learns and you bond. And the more you talk, the more those things happen.
Tip: Imitate your baby's vocalizations -- "ba-ba" or "goo-goo" -- then wait for your baby to make another sound, and repeat that back. This helps her learn the give and take of conversation.
Babies Are Expensive
The average middle class family spends $225,000 in the first 17 years of a child's life. That's just to provide food, shelter, and other necessities. It doesn't include things like increases in health insurance. Nor does it include saving for college, which is best started early. Babies necessitate a lot of financial planning.
Guilt Is Part of Parenthood
You told yourself you were going to be a top-notch parent – a calming, happy presence. But there are times when you simply don't want to do it anymore. Now you feel guilty that you aren't enjoying every second of parenthood. Don't. It's natural to want a break from baby.
Tip: Ask for help. When the baby's safe in his crib, call a friend. And notice all the things that are going right.
Children's Books Are Literature
If you didn't know children's books before, you'll fall in love with them now. Many are written with both parent and child in mind to entertain while they educate. Babies love to be read to, and it's never too early to start reading to yours.
Tip: Reading aloud will help your baby be a better reader when she's older.
You'll Make Mistakes
All those how-to books you read about parenting, and all those things you swore you would never do ... Maybe in a perfect world there are perfect parents. In the real world, the rule of thumb is you do what works. If your child's too old for a pacifier but it helps him sleep, you'll probably make the "mistake" of letting him keep it. Relax. That's not the kind of mistake that's going to hurt him. When in doubt, ask your pediatrician.
You Become a Judge
As your child grows, so does your role as adjudicator. It may not be what you want to do. Nevertheless, there'll be disputes between siblings to settle, boundaries to establish, time-outs to monitor. Discipline isn't the easiest thing to administer. But it's part of the job.
Tip: Set aside time to spend with each child individually, so they don't feel like they're always competing for your attention.
You Gain a Bathroom Buddy
It'll be a couple of years before you start potty training your new baby. But when you do, either you or your spouse will likely have an audience when you go to the bathroom. It's called parent modeling. And it’s one way to teach what going to the bathroom is all about. A kid, especially a smart kid like yours, can learn a lot by watching.
Baby Love Is Real
It might not happen right away. But someday you'll look at your child and feel a depth of emotion you haven't known before. Just how boundless that feeling of love is catches a lot of parents, especially mothers, by surprise. You knew you were going to love this baby, but not so unconditionally. Enjoy it and make it last a lifetime.
Parenting Is Letting Go
It's the bittersweet in parenting. Every milestone is an accomplishment, and you can be proud you helped your child get there. But at the same time, every milestone means your child is more independent and needs you a little less. When she's tiny, won't sleep through the night, and can't do for herself, you feel like it will never end. Then it seems like it's the next day and she's waving goodbye.
Article from:
http://www.webmd.com/parenting
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Friday, June 11, 2010
Wednesday, June 2, 2010
My forever status
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Rainy afternoon!!
There is never a moment I do not take a peek on my facebook account. And often, I do write what I feel to let my friends know my status for the day, or for the week for that matter. Among the many shout out's that I wrote, there is this one I really love for it really comes from the heart. It reads:
I am inlove with two men. The younger man wins most of my time and attention. The older one seems not to mind as long as I sleep beside him every night. I call the one my son, and the other my husband.
This status will forever be my status. I will always be inlove with my husband and the many more children he and I will be having.
Stay in love y'all!!
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Rainy afternoon!!
There is never a moment I do not take a peek on my facebook account. And often, I do write what I feel to let my friends know my status for the day, or for the week for that matter. Among the many shout out's that I wrote, there is this one I really love for it really comes from the heart. It reads:
I am inlove with two men. The younger man wins most of my time and attention. The older one seems not to mind as long as I sleep beside him every night. I call the one my son, and the other my husband.
This status will forever be my status. I will always be inlove with my husband and the many more children he and I will be having.
Stay in love y'all!!
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